Wednesday, January 30, 2013

10 Tips on How to Speak Effectively in Public

1. We should look our best. Although people are not supposed to 'judge the book by its cover', some people unconsciously tend to do that. If we don't look credible enough, they may not even start listening to what we have to say. I'm not saying we ought to wear gowns or tuxedos, but simply wear clothes fit for the occasion. Our clothes should be neat and free of wrinkles (unless it's the clothes' style), not too loud that people would rather stare at it than us. We should be pleasant-looking, and I'm not only referring to our clothes but our faces and gestures as well.

2. We should know how to stress our point. A speech, like a song has a variety of notes, tempo and loudness. A singer who just screeches all the way from the beginning to the end will not be listened to, no matter how talentedly-highpitched she is. Same with delivering a speech. We ought to know when to stay silent, when to pause, when to speak loudly, when to whisper, when to speak fast, when to slow down, etc. or else we would sound monotonous and the main points of our speech would not be understood or remembered well.

3. We should be humble. We should admit it when we make mistakes during our speech and to apologize for that mistake. There are times we may forget a certain term. Instead of pausing for a long time or using a word we're not sure of, it's better to ask our listeners. Do not be ashamed to do this. Listeners would appreciate your humility and even relate to you more because they know you are just like them, a human capable of making mistakes and forgetting things, a great or famous person, yet, still human, like them, and this makes the listeners love you more.

10 Tips on How to Speak Effectively in Public

4. We should develop a clean sense of humor. Relating to the above mentioned tip on humility, it's not embarrassing to make mistakes or forget things especially when you have a good sense of humor to save the day. Instead of that instant becoming one of your most embarrassing experiences, it might even become one of your speech's highlights depending on how you carry yourself. Let me point out though, that it's a clean sense of humor I'm talking about, because I've heard some speeches before that relied on toilet humor and/or 'for adults only jokes' (you know what I mean)and the listeners, me included were not amused at all. Some might even be offended and walk out. So, be careful with the jokes, okay?

5. We should talk to the listeners not just with our lips but our eyes too. Even if we have a prepared speech (which speakers usually don't memorize), we should not glue our eyes on it. It's probably better if we just write outlines of our speech and not the word per word thing, for we might just be tempted to look at it more. If it's an outline, we wouldn't rely on that sheet of paper before us. Instead of looking on the prepared speech sheet, we should be looking at our listeners. Don't just focus on one though (even if there's a really gorgeous guy or girl in the audience who caught your attention). Look from left to right or right to left slowly; look at nearly everyone. Look them in the eyes, try to see if they understand your point. Let's not look at trees or the stage's ceiling or floor. We are talking to the people, so it's them we ought to look at. Let's make sure though that the way we look at them is not in any way offending though. And what we're saying should be in harmony with how we look at them.

6. We should use our gestures well. If you're a conductor in an orchestra, I'd understand why you have a lot of hand gestures (just kidding!^^), but if not, minimize it. We don't want the audience to be distracted with our unnecessary movements while we talk. Our gestures should be governed by what we say and what we want to point out. We should avoid having a memorized gesture like children are taught when reciting a poem in grade school. (we're not kids anymore, so it's not cute anymore^^)

7. We should use appropriate language. There's no need to use terribly deep-no one-else-has-heard-of terms or expressions to impress the listeners. Instead of gaining admirers, we might even lose them. Speak with simplicity and sincerity. Speak your audience's language, meaning, make your language appropriate for their level of understanding and appreciation.

8. We should connect to our listeners. Let's not speak as if we're on a stage in an empty hall. We should talk to them. Some speakers even go to the point of going down the stage and talking to individuals, making the audience feel that they are important and that it's not a one-way communication speech, but a discussion and that their thoughts matter. We don't always have to do this. It depends on the occasion, the listeners and the time allotted for our speech. I would just like to point out that speakers who make their audience feel that he is not the center of attention but them (the listeners) win their respect more.

9. We should believe in what we are saying. If we don't sound convinced by what we say, we can't expect anyone to believe it. In the first place, there's no need to be shy when asked to speak in public because the fact that you are asked to speak to the audience already means that you have authority in that area you will be talking about, and that those people already believe in you to begin with. So, let's prove them right and not waste their trust.

10. We should be able to inspire our listeners to take action. This skill is probably not that easy to develop, but it's the skill that separates good speakers from great ones. Why? Because even if people enjoyed our speech and listened to it, if whatever action we expect from them afterwards was not realized, then, our talk might have been in vain. It might have been good for the moment, but not one that will be remembered or change lives.

I hope you learned a lot from these tips. I will write more tips and articles to share with you soon. If there are topics regarding English you would like me to discuss, kindly let me know. I'll see what I can do for you.

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Written by: D.A.Soriano of http://englishtrainer.blogspot.com D.A. Soriano is a a Communication Arts graduate with masteral units in English who became a Copywriter, an English/IELTS/TOEFL/TOEIC Instructor and a Training Manager/Consultant. Now, she's an entrepreneur, a blogger, a singer/composer, artist and novelist.

Saturday, January 26, 2013

Public Speaking - 5 Powerful Tips for Persuasive and Captivating Presentations

Let's face it. Most of us are not comfortable speaking in front of groups, especially when giving formal speeches or presentations. Standing on stage under bright lights, with all those blank faces staring at you, can be incredibly nerve racking. In fact, some people tremble at the mere thought of public speaking.

Did you know the fear of public humiliation is greater than the fear of death? It's universally true across all cultures. It's why most people are deathly afraid of public speaking.

Now here's the paradox. To reach that "next level" of success, socially and professionally, the ability to speak in front of a group is a fundamental necessity. Overcoming this fear will release your untapped potential. It will unlock opportunities that you may currently find unattainable.

Public Speaking - 5 Powerful Tips for Persuasive and Captivating Presentations

One of the most important life skills is communication. Being able to effectively communicate to groups of people gives you an incredible advantage.

Sooner or later you will be presenting. Maybe you need to pitch a proposal at a company meeting... give a sales presentation to prospective clients... or something as simple as voicing your opinion in front of some friends or colleagues. No matter how big or small your audience, the following 5 Tips will help you deliver persuasive, powerful presentations - guaranteed!

...But first thing's first! I am not a professional speaker. I was no less afraid of public speaking than the next person. When I was young I avoided large groups. They intimidated me. So it wasn't in my scope of reality to speak to a group of people!

Then as I got older I realized that shyness and greatness don't mix.

Through training, I overcame that barrier. Not only did I learn to speak in front of a group, I learned how to present. My fear of speaking was replaced with the confidence to deliver impactful presentations to over a hundred people at a time. Now I'm even more comfortable on TV and on camera. So I can say first-hand that applying these skills has absolutely improved my life!

There are a lot of good resources for public speaking. You can find speaking groups, (like Toastmasters), in every major city. It's a terrific way to develop some speaking skills. But, what I'm about to share with you is far more valuable than speaking skills alone. I'm not going to talk about articulation, creative use of language, vocal variety, filler words, verbal crutches, hand gestures, and other techniques.

Although public speaking techniques are invaluable for giving speeches, presentations are more interactive and often require facilitating audience engagement. When you're able to deliver captivating presentations, every aspect of your public speaking skills will improve automatically.

The magic of a powerful presentation is in the ability to make an emotional connection and build trust.

This is achieved by creating the proper setting, or [context], which engages your audience as part of your presentation. Logic, facts and figures may build interest and even impress your audience. However, it won't spark the emotional motivation that decisions are made from. And, it certainly isn't enough to earn their trust. Win over your audience by speaking to their hearts, not their minds. Remember, presenting is "facilitating a conversation". It's not lecturing.

Creating context is how the best speakers in the world influence and inspire. The process can be so subtle that unless you know what to look for, you just think they're amazing speakers - which of course they are! The point is, it can be duplicated. The process will even give you instant confidence. How's that for a great by-product?

...Communication is an emotional contact sport. Presenting to groups is no different. The common mistake is to think that presenting is a one-way street.

5 Tips to Connect With Your Audience:

Yes, it's your audience. And, no matter what you previously thought, "presenting" is two-way communication...even if you're doing all the talking!

Remember, the majority of all communication is non-verbal. Just because the audience isn't talking doesn't mean they're not communicating with you. You just gotta learn to "listen".

1. Get Present:

It's called present-ing for a reason, so be in the now. This is one of the most overlooked factors in giving presentations. It's so easy to get caught up in your "content" or presentation notes that you may as well be speaking to a wall.

There's a story of an actress who was having a conversation at a party. She talked about herself for 20 minutes then asked, "Enough about me. How did you like my last movie?"

Yes... you may have the stage, but it's not all-about-you!

Your audience is consciously or subconsciously looking for [what's in it for them]. For the most part, they're watching and listening to you for self-serving reasons. Address those reasons and you'll get their undivided attention.

Remember, in a presentation you're directing "a conversation". Yours is verbal and theirs is non-verbal. Take moments to stay connected to your listeners. Just as you would make eye contact in a one-on-one conversation, continually scan the room and make your audience feel as if you're talking to them individually. Notice their physical cues and responses during your presentation.

Not everyone has the ability to give a presentation or deliver a speech without using notes, and that's totally fine. Notes are useful and sometimes necessary, as long as they're not a crutch. If your face is buried in your notes, you're not connecting with the audience. That means you're definitely not present with them.

...Stay connected with your audience by "staying present".

2. Enroll the Audience:

Enrolling questions are questions that engage listeners into participation. There are 3 main benefits of using enrolling questions in your presentation:

#1- Questions hook the mind. This allows listeners to at least mentally participate in your presentation, not just sit and listen. Remember, you're leading a conversation and not a lecture. Get them to interact with you by asking questions that will lead into key points of your presentation.

The average adult attention span is probably shorter than the length of your presentation. It's even shorter with kids. So use questions to get them to focus on your presentation, instead of the gazillion things going on in their personal lives. (Considering the average internet user's attention span is in the seconds, congratulations! You're officially above average!)

#2 - Addressing their questions is the way to bridge trust. If your audience doesn't trust you and thinks you're just "selling" or manipulating, you've already lost them.

Use questions that are relevant to your listeners' interests. Your goal is 100% enrollment - your entire audience. If one or two people lose interest, it signals others to do the same. It only takes one person to trigger an episode in a group dynamic.

Participation is the key to retention and asking enrolling questions is the secret to participation. So use the universal enrollment question, "How Many Of You...?" (HMOY)

"How Many Of You would like to be a captivating speaker?" "How Many Of You would like to have the confidence of a world class leader?"

Business coaches, motivational speakers and exceptional salesmen all use the universal enrollment question. We've all heard these kinds of questions. And facilitated properly, it never gets old. Facilitated properly, it always works.

It's good to ask 2 questions at a time - one question, and then it's opposite. This way you get 100% enrollment. For example:

"How Many Of You are comfortable presenting to large groups?" (response)...."Thank You. How Many Of You are not comfortable presenting to large groups?" (response)..."Thank You."

Of course not everyone will physically participate, even though you've asked opposing questions. It's okay because just asking the question will mentally grab their attention.

Key Point: Asking enrolling questions alone isn't enough to fully engage the audience into participation. Physically demonstrate the Response You Want. If you want them to raise their hands in answering your questions, raise your hand!

Enthusiasm is contagious! If you raise your hand halfway, most of your audience may only flip their hand up at the wrist. Raise your hand high, with energy and enthusiasm, and the audience will more likely raise their hands at least halfway up. If you're connected with the audience, they'll follow your physical commands without resistance. If not, it's a cue to get present and re-connect. I encourage you to test this!

Another important point when asking enrolling questions is to thank the audience each time they respond. This is an important part of the enrollment process. It will help you gain trust by appreciating your audience.

...Use enrolling questions > Model the response you want > Thank the audience when they participate.

3. Address Their Physical/Mental/Emotional States:

Have you ever shifted in your seat to get comfortable during a lecture? Ever change leg positions or arch your back to stretch while seated? Ever need to take a big deep breath to stay focused and energized?

Of course!...Did you take a deep breath just now?

This is called a state change. While listening to a speaker, we periodically need to "change our state." We subconsciously do this to release discomfort, or to "refresh" ourselves so our attention doesn't drift off. As a listener this helps us focus. Now as a speaker, it usually means your audience is bored, uncomfortable or in disagreement with you.

What if you could use state changes to your advantage, instead of something to worry about during your presentation? How valuable would that be for your confidence? Here's where delivering a presentation gets fun! (Imagine... public speaking can be fun!)

Have you ever been to a seminar and noticed how often the speaker will ask questions to get you to raise your hand?...And every so often they may even get you to stand up or perform some kind of physical movement.

A lot of people associate this with motivational lectures - to get you energized. That's true, and it's actually much more. Did you ever think that it's an integral part of the entire presentation process? In fact, it's carefully thought out. It's usually so subtle that most people don't realize the intent behind it.

Having good content in your presentation may get listeners interested. However, that's not always enough for them to commit to a decision inspired by your presentation. How you deliver your presentation is everything.

While observing video playback of various seminars, it was discovered that the entire audience would periodically shift in their seats. Here's why...

Like a computer, your brain is constantly processing information at lightning speed. It's processing millions of bits of information per second. Your audience is subconsciously picking up tons of information from the words you're using, your vocal tone, body language, other people in the audience, etc. It processes it all and comes up with an emotional feeling, mental thought, physical sensation, or a combination of the three. This dictates their [energetic state].

This "state" must be constantly addressed in order to retain their attention - more accurately, to retain their interest. Otherwise you'll lose them through the overwhelming amount of information you're blasting at them, or merely through sheer boredom.

Just as you periodically need to hit the [refresh button] on your internet browser, the processor in our brains need to be refreshed too! Mental, physical and emotional states are all closely connected. Change one and you simultaneously influence the other two. Studies have shown that the fastest way to change someone's state is through a physical motion.

Knowing this, you can facilitate state changes in your audience at will, during your presentation. It's not to be mistaken with manipulation. It's the secret to keeping your audience focused and engaged.

If you don't facilitate state changes, your audience will unconsciously do them on their own. And that could mean you've momentarily lost them. If you've even momentarily lost them, you're not communicating effectively.

Remember, they'll only retain about 10% of what you said. But, they'll always remember how you made them feel!...and most decisions are based on emotions - not logic. Logic is how decisions are later justified.

This is why professional speakers put so much emphasis on how their message is delivered - cause context, (how it's said) can be more important than content, (what is said).

...Facilitate "state changes" to get keep the audience engaged.

4. Acknowledge & Thank Your Audience:

Everyone has an inner skeptic. It's healthy, to some degree. But as a speaker, a skeptical audience is intimidating. Unless your audience already knows you, they're probably skeptical while open-minded at the same time. Those odds can quickly change for you or against you. It can happen faster than you can say (or don't say) "anything." So let's increase those odds in your favor!

A key part of delivering a powerful presentation is to build trust. This includes addressing the audience's inner skeptic during your presentation. This is commonly known as addressing [WIIFM's] or What's In It For Me?

...Meaning, what's in it for your listeners? You may have something valuable to share, but is it important to them? What are some obvious questions your listeners may have in order to peak their interest and gain their trust?

Many people, understandably, want to avoid controversy and "hot topics" during a presentation. Objections can be scary to face head on, especially when unprepared and under the pressure of a large group! But completely avoiding them during your presentation has been proven to be a huge mistake!

There's no faster way to lose credibility, and a listener's interest, than to avoid WIIFM's and not address obvious objections.

This one point underlines the core reason most people are afraid of public speaking - the universal fear of public humiliation. Ironically, hidden in the fearsome WIIFM's and objections lies the secret to making quantum leaps in the power of your presentations.

Take the time to anticipate and prepare for major WIIFM's and objections. Even if nobody verbalizes them, someone is thinking about them. And if someone is thinking about them, others probably are too. And if your audience is thinking about their objections instead of listening to your presentation, they may be in disagreement with you. Which means you've momentarily lost the connection.

WIIFM's and objections may or may not be the same. A listener may not have any objections but simply aren't interested cause they don't see any personal relevance, (WIIFM). Or, someone can be interested and engaged while being skeptical (sees the relevance but has objections).

Either way, making an emotional connection is the key to a powerful presentation. Why do you think testimonials have proven to be more effective than selling facts and features?

I can't tell you how powerful it is to address WIIFM's and objections during your presentation. It skyrockets your credibility and further engages your audience for a fantastic presentation.

Remember, it's imperative to thank your audience for their time and participation....Not just at the end of your presentation, but throughout your entire presentation. It's a natural human need to feel valued. Extend your audience's trust by genuinely appreciating them.

...Acknowledge the audience's WIIFM's and major objections.

...Thank them for their time, participation, and/or money.

5. Call To Action:

Depending on the kind of presentation you're giving, a "call to action" is whatever your intentions are for your audience. For example: to get their contact information to build your prospective client list, to schedule future appointments, to make an immediate sale, etc.

This is the time to "close" your presentation and get the results you're intending. You've informed, inspired, and added value to your listeners. Your presentation has prepped them for this moment...now what?

Generally, the audience still needs direction. At this point they probably realize the potential value you're offering. In fact, if you've addressed the WIIFM's and made the emotional connection, they can't wait for you to tell them what to do next! That's exactly the win-win you're looking for.

Keep in mind that most people follow the group dynamic. Without clear guidance, they may scatter or just follow the masses. So, where do you want the masses to go? A common mistake is not providing a simple and clear call to action. I've seen so many good presentations go bad because of a lack of definitive next steps.

...Provide a simple and clear call-to-action.

Summary:

By no means is this article a 'complete guide' to delivering powerful presentations. It's not possible to stuff advanced material into one article. That being said, implementing this process into your presentations will yield outstanding results - guaranteed!

There isn't necessarily an "order" to this process. These tips are to be applied throughout your entire presentation. Using this methodology, you'll be able to take your presentation towards a professional, world-class level!
Get Present Enroll the Audience Address the Audience's Energetic State Acknowledgement and Thanks Call to Action

Next time you watch a professional speaker or top salesman, you'll recognize these powerful tips that you've just learned. Best of all, now you can consciously duplicate this proven process and implement them as your own.

Professional training doesn't always have to cost a lot of money, (like it did for 'some people'). In this case it only costs you an investment in time! Congratulations and good luck! You won't need it: )

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Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Solutions For Smoking In Public Places

"Smoking kills!" - Do you know all the cigarette and other cigar packets have got this printed in bold either on the front or at the back side of their covers? But do you know how many smokers have noticed this and never regarded this as a serious warning to their health.

We all know smoking is such an addiction which would not go away easily amongst majority of the world population and no such country could stop or prevent the smokers to easily quit smoking by enforcing any laws. Still enforcing a smoking ban in public areas has shed new light amongst those who have been regularly advising others on the discomforts and ill effects of smoking.

As a matter of fact, ban of smoking in public areas can still be safeguarded by introducing smoking shelters which can be used for smoking, keeping rest of the environment smoke free. All the public areas have now being relieved from the smoke and smokers. If you are a smoker, then the only place where you can entertain your smoking pleasure is a smoking shelter which is located either outside the bars, restaurants, shopping malls etc, built in open air or are built inside the building in a form of semi-closed smoking shelter, thoroughly ventilated and properly recycled.

Solutions For Smoking In Public Places

More and more people who are concerned about their and public health would appreciate the introduction of smoking bans and smoking shelters. Those people who were allergic to smoke or were not visiting pubs due to its environment, would now be more interested in going to bars and discos increasing the sales with both smokers and non-smokers looking for entertainment. All the smokers who would want to smoke can move into the smoking shelters leaving the rest of the place smoke free. Therefore, get the smoking shelters to compete and live up to the standards defined by the government.

These shelters are a good way to get rid of the dangerous cigarette fumes which has caused several issues in peoples through out the world. You can pick any form of smoking shelters as there are plenty with different style and design available in market today. They can be constructed with good quality material and absolutely no maintenance.

These smoking shelters are constructed in almost every block, the only place for a smoker to visit and fulfill his/her smoking desires. These shelters are mostly standing shelters where you visit for a minute or two, smoke cigarettes and crush the cigarette butts inside the trash bins or vertical trash columns and leave.

You can also get to look at some medium to big sized smoking shelters with people sitting and chatting for long time. Well there is no ban on the time a smoker spends inside a smoking shelter. Though smoking shelters have given new life to smokers, its has at the same time restricted the usage of cigarettes, motivating smokers to reduce their smoking habit on large scale in public places keeping the atmosphere clean with a new hope of having a healthier nation.

The biggest advantage of smoking shelters is its structure. It has a roof top to protect against any climatic conditions, with one side completely open and a decent seating arrangement along with trash bins to throw smoking litter. Most of these smoking shelters have been designed using curved shaped nice looking state-of-art builds and are placed away from any public entry or exit place. They also have smoking signs to identify its existence to any smoker. Most of these shelters have been built in public parking lots where most of the smokers assemble to puff.

Use smoking shelters - a last resort for public smoking...

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Sunday, January 20, 2013

The 4 Different Types of Connectives Used in Good Public Speaking

Good public speaking skills involve more than presenting informative or persuasive material to an audience in an engaging, uplifting manner. It requires the use of connectives to keep your presentation or speech organized as well as unified. Better than a verbal tic, such as 'um' or 'ah,' by employing good connectives in your speech, you will also make it easier for your listeners to both follow what you are saying and remember more of what you are saying.

The 4 types of connectives include:

1. Signposts

The 4 Different Types of Connectives Used in Good Public Speaking

Without a doubt, one of the most popular forms of connectives are signposts. The signpost refers to very brief statements that tell your audience where you are in your speech. They can be numbers - the 1st idea, the 2nd idea, etc.; they can be questions which offer good audience interaction; and, they can be phrases that underscore important points in your message.

Example: The most important thing I want you to gain from my presentation is that breathing with the support of your diaphragm will not only end vocal abuse but it will also mean a more confident, more mature-sounding speaking voice.

In the above statement, I have reiterated what I want my audience to remember but I have also let them know that I have come to the end of my development. While those words are not my concluding statement, they have paved the way for my conclusion.

2. Transitions

Transitions are words or phrases that mark the end of one thought or idea and move the speaker into another thought or idea by including material from the previous statement into the new one.

Example: Now that we have seen that the habitual voice can be affected by vocal abuse, allow me to explain how the situation can be reversed.

In the above sentence, the words in bold mark the transition, reinforcing my previous statements and paving the way for the new statement.

3. Internal Previews

Similar to the transition and often including a transition, the internal preview is found in the development of the speech or presentation and includes what is coming up in greater detail than the transition. The preview is in bold.

Example: Now that we have seen that the habitual voice can be affected by vocal abuse, the remedy is quite simple. Learn to breathe with the support of your diaphragm and allow your chests to power your voice.

Including the original transition, the internal preview consists of the statement which follows in bold.

4. Internal Summaries

Found also in the development of the speech or presentation, the internal summary is the opposite of the internal preview because it lists ever so briefly what has already been stated. These summaries are important because they reinforce what has already been said, making it easier for your audience to follow your message.

Example: In essence, by learning to breathe properly, finding the optimum pitch of your speaking voice, and allowing your chest to do the work, you will eliminate vocal abuse forever.

The above sentence summarizes succinctly what may have been discussed for the last 10, 20 or even 40 minutes of your delivery.

Using any and all of the above connectives in your delivery are very effective means of keeping your audience's attention as well as keeping your talk organized. Use them and your listeners will remember more of what you have said.

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Saturday, January 5, 2013

Public Speaking - "Picture Them Naked" And Other Stupid Ways To Get Over A Fear Of Public Speaking

Nervous first-time public speakers have long been told a number of "creative" ways to help them get past the fear of public speaking. As a speech coach, communication consultant, and a professional speaker myself, I can tell you these creative bits of advice designed to help you get over being scared are not only stupid, but will likely hurt you and make you feel worse.

In no particular order, here are the three most common-- and stupidest --ways people say to get past feeling nervous. When you hear these, run from the other person and DO NOT TAKE ANY ADVICE FROM THEM!!! (sorry to yell).

1. "Picture them naked."

Public Speaking - "Picture Them Naked" And Other Stupid Ways To Get Over A Fear Of Public Speaking

This seemingly pornographic advice refers to imagining your audience in some position that lowers their perceived power. Other variations on this theme include, "Picture them in their underwear" and "picture them on the toilet." To all of these (and especially that last one about the loo), I say, "Ew." And how distracting! Not only do you have to remember your speech but now you have to visualize people in unflattering positions? No thank you. What's better? Visualize yourself delivering your speech calmly and confidently. And as for what to do with your audience? Look at them as people interested in hearing what you have to say and strive to make a connection with them.

2. "Instead of making eye contact look at their foreheads/chin."

Or "Look at the back of the room." (Really?) People do notice if you're not looking them in the eye. Unless you are in a large auditorium on a stage far removed from the audience, people will be able to tell if you are avoiding eye contact. And then they will not trust you and you will lose rapport quickly. Find people who seem genuinely interested in your presentation and speak to each one individually during your speech.

3. "Start off with a joke."

Only start your presentation with a joke if you are a priest delivering your Sunday homily or a comedian. Or-- if the joke is completely relevant to your speech. But if you feel nervous speaking to a group, it's not a good idea to lead off with humor. Starting with some random joke will only lower your credibility during the first 10 seconds when audiences are making their first impression of you. Then what if they don't laugh? Then you'll feeling more uncomfortable with your audience right off the bat. If they don't laugh, well now you're even more nervous because the first thing you planned bombed.

So what is the best way to get past your nerves? Practice and prepare.
Visualize your speech going exactly as you want it to go. And strive to make a connection with your audience by paying attention to them. Remember, delivering a speech is not about you -- it's about your audience and giving them what they want during your public speaking presentations.

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